What if God was one of us
Just a slob like one of us
Just a stranger on
the bus
Trying to make his way home
— Joan Osborne Song
It is very easy to get wrapped up in the challenges and tests of the day. In the venture business, unfortunately, approximately 50% of investments end up in the losing column and 10% of the deals drive the superior returns (hopefully). As a result, you spend over 80% of your time dealing with the issues in the portfolio such as fundraising, hiring management, revisiting strategy and costs and such. When things go wrong, they go wrong very quickly and one company can take up most of your waking hours (and many of the other ones as well). These are not enjoyable times. This, however, is not the focus of this post. Perspective is.
Today, I spoke with our building’s former landlord, Dave. He is a wonderful person who treated the building, its employees and its tenants like family. Our head maintenance guy, Pedro, recently had a stroke. I was not aware of the full extent of it, except that he was not coming back to work and Dave had set up a public fund for him. Today, however, I heard the full story.
Pedro is 52 and has lost the use of portions of his left side including his arm. He is working hard in rehab to regain use, but it is an uphill battle and it is not certain how much he will succeed. It is a struggle for him to walk, but he tries to get out for a mile each day with a walker. He has three young children and wife to support. However, it is uncertain if he will be able to work again. Social security disability pays some and he has some savings set aside, but this all will eventually run down.
Pedro was an everyday part of many of our lives in the building. When he had his stroke, it was out of sight, out of mind for many of us. Dave was one of the only people to reach out to help Pedro. This is true compassion and true leadership. This is what people mean when they say that their company and employees are like a family. It means you legitimately care and you spend time and effort to take care of each other.
It made me think about how many people are around me everyday and, because I am so focused on my daily grind, my most recent troubled situation, I don’t look up and I don’t take the time to care. I also fail to put things into perspective. Stories like Pedro’s make me realize how truly fortunate I am to have my family, my job, my opportunities and my friends. It also makes me think about how I could be using all of these more effectively for the betterment of those around me, even if it is just one person at a time (starfish story to come later).
I don’t know how Pedro will make it through his harsh reality. I will do what I can to help Dave in his efforts. However, given how much Dave is doing, it makes me understand how much more engaged and helpful I could be. Not only is Dave helping Pedro, he (and people like him) are setting a bar for the rest of us. It is up to all of us to lift up our heads from the rat race and rise to the challenge.